I guess that’s why children are telling me everything openly. Sometimes, when children want to tell their mothers something, adults may not be empathetic enough to respond to them. Because when we become adults, we forget that we were once children. We forget how helpless children are when they encounter certain problems. In fact, when the child came home, he wanted to jump on his mother and tell her his grievances. But mother is more concerned if there is a dictation tomorrow.

Over time, children will feel that it is not effective to talk, so I might write a letter to someone who listens to me and does not criticize. When dealing with these especially those connected with something on a girl’s mind, don’t be so quick to criticize rationally. You should try to understand her, just as if she wanted to cry, you should give her a vessel to hold her tears or, if she needed a shoulder, you should let her lean on you. This is a common occurrence for females. If you could do this part, she would be willing to tell you what’s on her mind.

Parents should let their children feel that their home is very safe, respectful, and loving. Second, parents should pay more attention to their children and follow their interests. Girls are easier to deal with because they have better attention spans, so if you provide those things, they will be self-motivated, while boys need more pushing.

When your son grows up to be as tall as you are and your daughter grows up to be as tall as you are, do you want him or her to still hold your hand? To date you? And then say to you, “Mommy, I have something on my mind to tell you.” Do you want that? If you want this, however, it will not happen naturally, you should put a lot of effort into it during your children’s growth, just like putting money in a piggy bank.